Relationships after weight loss ( with or without surgery)


This is a very difficult subject and someone needed to address it…Why not me? If you have any questions feel free to contact me….Thank you for watching!

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25 Responses to Relationships after weight loss ( with or without surgery)

  1. dawnmarie416 says:

    Great video Allison! Thank you for sharing from your heart and I really respect you for only saying kind things about Joe, that is so mature of you. It’s amazing to witness your growth!

  2. mermaidTa2 says:

    TY Allison for doing this sensitive & honest video. You are somewhat of a celebrity here in the WLS Community, so I was wondering why I never heard about Joe anymore. I commend you for doing what you needed to do to make YOU happy, Life is too short to waste a minute on just ok. You are truly wise beyond your years. and I know now everything is good with you, and that makes all of us here happy. TY for all you share w/ us
    PS I LOVE my Frapp Maker!! Craigs List $35. SCORE!!

  3. theqinn says:

    my sex has chage in a way bad im lonvin it more and would expect it to better for us all but thast was not the case i he change just like me he was scared just like yoiu nssid but you have to talk that iw the only answer

  4. theqinn says:

    i love you so much i wish i could meet ytoui

  5. sweetbabyblues70 says:

    relationships are def.different after weight loss and its sometimes very difficult to work through. thank you for making this video. if you wouldnt mind, id like to talk to you more about it. maybe face to face??? let me know if your willing to do that!!! thank you again for posting this

  6. FatMedStudent says:

    This is a GREAT video! You were right on target! Thanks for posting it!

  7. allisonpacino says:

    @candycoatedcenter Thank you for posting….This is a real issue ,but it doesn’t mean that everyone will have relationship problems. I just wanted people to be aware that it can happen and not to let it go like I did…I hope it only brings you two closer :)

  8. allisonpacino says:

    @SarahWillBeSkinny Yes dating after weight loss surgery is a big issue too….and I am in that myself right now. This surgery changes things and we have to catch up you know? Thank you girl!!

  9. allisonpacino says:

    @khamm827 Thank you!

  10. allisonpacino says:

    @mia2292 This is so true….I love how you put this Mia…Thank you :)

  11. allisonpacino says:

    @Reesa23 Yes he was/is :) Joe is a great person there is not doubt about that.

  12. allisonpacino says:

    @theqinn Thank you….We HAVE to be happy and do what’s right you know? It is so hard ,but worth it in the end for both people…Maybe you both need to work on things first and see where that goes.

  13. allisonpacino says:

    @strongisfighting Thank you for your support and I knew you’d know where I was coming from on this one.

  14. allisonpacino says:

    @AntoniaTakeTwo I wanted to share my story because I know that I’m not the only one who has or will deal with this situation…Thank you Antonia :)

  15. allisonpacino says:

    @p1xiefairy I am glad you can understand where I am coming from on this one…It’s a tough situation ,but we made the best of it in the end. We have to do what’s right for us too.

  16. p1xiefairy says:

    good topic, i can personally relate to this… my bf and i broke up as well we were also together for a very long time, and there was a lot of underlying issues i did not deal with before surgery. like you said once you cant blame it on the weight anymore you have to confront everything face to face, I have no ill feelings towards my ex, but wish i had dealt with it earlier

  17. AntoniaTakeTwo says:

    Allison, this was such an important video Vlog to post.
    This is a topic we need to expand on.
    I am glad you were the one to start the conversation because you have such a wonderful way of communicating very personal information .

  18. strongisfighting says:

    I could have said a lot of this myself. Thank you for your honesty. I’m planning to make a response video tomorrow.

  19. theqinn says:

    alison you are amazing and an inspiration to me thanks for neing honest
    my problem is he is scared im going to leave him i love him so much he misses the old me but i hate the old me she will never come back
    you are alot happier now we all can seee that be happy for life it is all about you now
    love you

  20. Reesa23 says:

    Joe was hot as hell, I have to say. But I’m glad you made decisions that were best for you.

  21. cnelife44 says:

    Allison….you are a wise young lady and have learned so much about yourself through all this. You help alot of people when you are honest with us and yourself…..I would like to be more like you. You deserve all the happiness that is coming your way.

  22. mia2292 says:

    I think that all relationships have a life cycle, some are longer or shorter than others. I read a book once that said “when we lived to be 25, ’till death’ do us part’ might have been okay, but now that we live to be over 80, it might not be so realistic.” The fact that a relationship ended, does not mean it was a failure. It just means its life cycle was over. Relationships add richness to your life in all cycles.

  23. khamm827 says:

    Love this video girl!!! You look amazing! :-)

  24. SarahWillBeSkinny says:

    Thank you for touching on this… you’re right, it’s NOT talked about enough. I’d also like to see more videos on “dating” after WLS. You look AMAZING… and you look so HAPPY! SO I’m glad you’re doing well! :o )

  25. Journey2betrhealth says:

    So good of you to share this story! I suspected this so I didn’t need to ask. Hope both of you are doing well now.Love you!
    Donna:)

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