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I know you may think I’m biased on this subject but I wouldn’t recommend going to any religious group for healing, and that recommendation has nothing to do with my personal standpoint. Dependency is what you’re battling here and religion is another dependency, a blanket to hold, a thumb to suck. You should go to a non-religiously based group and learn to be independent, to strike out on your own. You can do it!
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One last thing Cree. Water seeks it’s own level. You will keep seeking out co dependants until you stop being one yourself. Do not date for a long time. You have to heal yourself first or you will choose another TJ. Just like I would find another Tim to be a friend. Think of your alone time as a “vacation” with yourself!
Go for a walk. Go to a book store. It WILL all work out. WE all doubt ourselves at times. Seek therapy if you haven’t already. Hugs & Happiness! Maureen
Try new things. ANYTHING! You WILL feel better! It won’t happen overnight but it WILL happen. I am thinking of joining OA too but I am not very religious though I do believe in a higher power. I really do. Maybe Tim can be my guardian angel now and help ME. I have read some books on co dependency and they have helped. My family and few friends I have, have helped. Email me if you need someone to listen. It’s my name here with the Aol stuff after it. Do something for yourself every day! Be well
His sister called me and told me he fell down some stairs and died. A freak accident. I am still in such shock that I will never laugh with him again or see him for that matter. You have to keep yourself busy!! Stir up your old routine and do NEW things. I am trying to, in baby steps but it’s time to take care of ME now. I can’t blame Tim for the weight I gained but I don’t have that stress of that bad friendship with him. (We had fun too but it was mostly bad) Enjoy the alone time!
She was absolutley right! I spent the last 7 years gaining more weight and trying to take care of HIM. I was co dependant on him as he was on me. It was so hard but I pushed myself to go out and do things BY MYSELF. I am happier in a way but he passed away in March and that was a blow to me. I hoped he would have beat alcohol. He was trying. I know he was. He was going to AA several times a week and it was looking better for him.
Cree I was checking in to see how your post op was going and I see how upset you have been. I wasnt’ in a relationship but it felt like it as we were best friends and talked almost dauly for the 7 years we knew each other. He was an alcoholic and I am an overeater. My older sister gave me some great advise although I didn’t think so at the time. I would cry to her how lonely I was. How much I missed him, etc and she said enjoy your own company. Take care of YOU now. You can’t help HIM anymore.
I love you Cree Ingles! You are a sweetie and I a praying for you everyday!
Off to college tomorrow. I’ll get my camera up soon.
Mike
Hi Cree, I come from time to time and catch up on all your vids…I said it before and I will say it again,
YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON!!!
Part of ‘changing’ your life, be it losing weight, be it a person who quits drinking or smoking etc..
has to come from the individual but support ALSO has to come from those around you.
.be it a partner
or family and friends…Your partner should ALWAYS support you and encourage you to do the BEST things..
otherwise…your journey will be that much more difficult.
Give yourself time to ‘heal’ from the ‘loss’ of the relationship….you might trick yourself into thinking
you’re ready to move on..just give it some time…good luck sweetheart…youre a gem..
Wow I had no idea what was going on Cree… I’m sorry for your troubles lately but I hope you know you ARE a very fucking beautiful person, no one is perfect, we all make mistakes but we just learn from them and become stronger.
Please don’t give up! Good friends love you when your vibrant and outgoing and when your down and out!
If you need ANYTHING even just to vent… I’m here.
r those your real eye color? They’re stunning!
yea same here.. [im considering gastric bypass]
thank you for ur videos cree, they r so honest and inspirational, i hope u keep making them, your a great person and u deserve the best life has to offer
Hey That Sacred Heart Hospital business is very strange….my particular program and local hospital (that has the bariatric center) will take any one whether or not it was done there OR if they even see other surgeons who arent part of their network….those ppl sound like asses how can they deny your attendance at a support group!
aww you look SO sad!
Hang in there sweetheart. It sounds like you made the best decision about the relationship. Things will work out for you, it will take time. Stay strong and good luck! 
If you take the weightloss out of the equation and just focussed on your life you’ll find out that everything will balance out. Letting go and letting God is a huge relevation because as people we always want to fix what is broken or let other people try to fill a need to get that quick fix but God isn’t into microwaving, God is into marinating you as a person so you can rely truly on Him and yourself. God has given us the power to move mountains by faith and thats how I know you’ll be fine:o)
having my own choices has been huge! makes a big difference…
getting to know ME scares the hell outta me.. thats what i’m facing right now
it was way too soon for me to date.. but cant tell me nuttin.. i jumped into it anyway der on me
tj and i grew apart.. he didnt get me anymore.. and i guess i just didnt get where he was going with his life either
i know mizzie has more to say
true.. she’ll never let him have a life of his own.. who ever tj is with.. she’ll make sure it doesnt work out in the end